I probably don’t need to point out the obvious, but, while that other guy was probably trolling, abuse by women of men does happen. My ex-wife had borderline personality disorder, and this made her VERY difficult to live with at times. She was verbally and emotionally abusive toward me. She was none to kind to the kids, either, but I took the brunt of the hateful things that she used to say. Medication helped make her a far less … cruel? … person.
The point is that abuse isn’t necessarily gender based, although it is FAR more likely from men to women then vise-versa. You know doubt already know this as there are many women who abuse their kids, but wives abusing husbands are probably much rarer.
My brother, by coincidence, has Asperger’s. While the other guy’s story didn’t ring true to me, I can say that my brother used to poke at me like a rat in a cage when I was a kid trying to study my emotional reactions. People with Asperger’s do have trouble reading the emotions of other people. I can’t picture my brother being cruel to children or being abusive toward a wife or girlfriend, but I can’t say for sure that others with Asperger’s wouldn’t be.
Thanks for sharing. Sorry for what you and your kids went through.
I know that abuse happens from all genders, however, that wasn’t the reason I thought he was trolling. Instead of asking me, “Do you have any advice?” or something along those lines, he asked, “Are you gonna fight for men’s rights?” That was the main thing for me that made me think this was an MRA (men’s rights activist) troll. Considering it was sent in a few other feminist blogs like sanityscraps, it pretty much confirmed it.
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